Creating the magnetic pull to accomplish your dream can be easier than you think. The time element of waiting can create stress or frustration, but it does not have to. There are some quick, simple steps that, when followed, can bring ease into your life.
The first thing is to surround yourself with positive people, ones who already manifested what you are looking for. If you want a better job, hang with people who love what they do and are successful. If you want a better relationship than your last one, spend time with couples who are respectful, playful, and loving with each other. Make sure your single friends are upbeat, positive, and supportive of your situation. Mix up your social time so you may be enveloped by harmonious couples and singles of both genders. Don’t make every social event a time to look for that special one; merely make your time out playful.
Let the joy of others rub off on you. Bask in their light and envision how it will feel when you are in a similar position. Say to yourself, “I can have that.” To create success I have taken my bike on the trails that run behind beautiful expensive homes. I ride down the streets, and the owners of these homes smile and wave to me, assuming I live there. I wave back, accepting that I could be a neighbor who lives around the corner. This gives my desire a taste of reality, which empowers it.
The most important rule is to never lose sight of your dream. Hold the picture in your heart, do not give it a lot of details, and allow the universe to fill in the blanks. In that way you will get more than you could have imagined. It also saves time and relieves stress. Put out your wish and know in your heart it will manifest. Remove the time restraints and go out and enjoy your life. Find joy in the simple things, then the time will pass quickly and, before you know it, your desire will arrive.
Marnie Vincolisi is an internationally known speaker and author; she just returned from a book signing in Prague and will be in Chicago mid-July. Currently she lives in Tucson, Arizona and Denver, Colorado. She will be teaching a class on "Making Space for Healthy Relationships" on July 21 at LFAC. Please join us for this informative and transformational class. You may learn more about Marnie at www.lightinternal.com.