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For many years the most popular questions brought to me were about love and relationships.  The last year or two the common theme has shifted to jobs and money, but I’m preparing myself for a swing back once people start to feel financially stable again.  Tarot has a reputation for predicting tall dark strangers and unfaithful lovers.  Many less than scrupulous readers have made small fortunes by duping hurting clients into thinking they can magically bring back a lost love without ever addressing why the relationship ended.  Although Tarot can be used to predict the future, its best use is in addressing the past and present.

Tarot can do many things to help improve your love life.  Tarot can give a new perspective on a relationship and provide information that is either hidden or being ignored.  It can address self-esteem issues and pinpoint lessons to be learned from past relationships.  Often Tarot illuminates options we didn’t even know we had.  But Tarot cannot and will not tell you what to do, and it most certainly won’t tell you how to change another person.

Many people go to a Tarot reader searching for love without ever thinking about what that love might look like.  I don’t mean the physical characteristics of an ideal lover, or even descriptions of candlelit dinners or romantic walks beside a moonlit lake.  I guess what I’m saying is that love is not all soft lighting and pet names.  Tarot will tell you about what it's going to be like after the wooing is done.  Above all else, Tarot will tell the truth and too many people who seek out a reader are just not prepared to hear it.  After investing months or years on a relationship it’s hard to admit to ourselves that we’ve made a mistake.  It’s easier to believe that the problems we are having are spontaneous and temporary and that we can fix them.  I’ve seen too many clients close themselves off to new relationships because they are clinging to an old one that has ended or just plain isn’t working. 

Few come to a Tarot reader when their love life is running smoothly.  To get the most out of your reading it is important to be open to new ideas and attitudes, and that may mean recognizing when it is time to move on.  That's not to say that if you're visiting a Tarot reader all hope is lost.  Although we can't change our partners we can change how we react to stressful relationships.  Too many people come to a Tarot reader wanting to hear good news about their current relationship and are thus blinded to the possibility that they can find good news elsewhere.  If you are unhappy with your cheating lover, it is unlikely that I will tell you he is suddenly going to be faithful.  Maybe it's time to find a relationship you can be happy in, and this is where Tarot does its best and most optimistic work.  A reader can sometimes answer where and when with the cards, but do you really want to sit and wait for Mr. or Ms. Right to come knocking?  In my experience clients benefit much more from asking how and why?  Why am I continually drawn to the same kind of jerks?  How do I break unhealthy dating patterns?  The answers may not always be what you want to hear but they will be much more useful in the long run. 

I'm a big fan of the theory that Tarot doesn't have to be random - you can actually pick the cards you want to have represent your situation.  Like a prayer or meditation, you can find the Tarot cards that represent what you want out of a relationship and put that intention out to the universe.  Here's a hint: The Lovers is the wrong card unless you are only looking for a fling.  Be specific and keep in mind the the things that were lacking in past relationships.  In the Minor Arcana the six of cups or swords may represent a more compassionate partner, the ten of coins or cups may represent someone who appreciates family, swords might help you meet your intellectual match and pick wands or the Chariot if you want to avoid a lazy lover.  Some Tarot readers believe that the act of laying out the cards in a reading makes the messages in those cards become reality, so why leave it to fate?  Build the picture of the relationship you want, with a reader if need be, and read those cards like you would any randomly shuffled spread.  Then be open to surprises.      

April Wagner has been reading and studying Tarot for 15 years.  She has written numerous articles and deck reviews for print and the web, and founded the Chicago Tarot Club in 2005 to provide a social network for professionals and hobbyists in the area.  April is available for private readings at Life Force Arts Center, including readings on Divination Day on Saturday April 3, and she will be giving a free lecture as part of LFAC's Fireside Chat Series on Monday April 5th at 7:30.  Contact This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it for appointments and more information.

 

 

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Have you ever looked at a rainbow and wondered if there really was a pot of gold at the end of it? Any time St. Patrick’s Day rolls around and you see all the pictures of leprechauns and their pots of gold, have you ever thought to yourself “I’d like one of those. Where can I find a pot of gold?”

Finding your pot of gold is less elusive than you might think, and yes, chasing rainbows is involved. Follow these three steps and gain access to your pot of gold in no time!

Decide What Your Pot of Gold Looks Like
The first step in finding your pot of gold is determining what your pot of gold really looks like. After all, if you don’t have a clear picture of what you’re looking for, how will you ever find it?

The pot of gold is just an expression, an idea, or a representation of prosperity and success. Start with defining what success means to you. For some it may be wealth. For others, though, it is what the wealth provides…the feelings, the freedom, and the experiences. For others, it is a representation of true prosperity. Define what success and prosperity mean to you and you’ll be well on your way to attracting it into your life.

Go Chase a Rainbow
I haven’t known a person that doesn’t stop and look in awe at a rainbow. The beauty and wonder of a rainbow makes us all light up, feel joy, and pause to breathe in the wonderment of life.

The more we look for joy in our lives, the more we find it. And the more we allow ourselves to partake in the wonderment and beauty of life, the more we experience joy and are prompted with inspired actions to take toward our goals.

Run after the things that bring you joy, look for the rainbows in your life, and allow them to guide you in your next steps.

Follow Your Inner Leprechaun
Leprechauns are an interesting sort. The stories about them are varied and there seems to be no true consensus. And most people believe them to be mischievous, solitary wee folk who protect their pots of gold and use magic to keep you from stealing it. Why then would you want to follow your inner leprechaun? Because if you look deeper into who they are, you find that they do have some true secrets that we can all learn from.

To learn their secrets and how you can use them to find your pot of gold, you’ll have to join me at our St. Patrick’s Day Fireside Chat, Follow Your Inner Leprechaun: Secrets to Finding Your Pot of Gold.

In this free one-hour discussion, you’ll learn how to chase a rainbow, discover tools to help you decide what your pot of gold looks like, and unearth the secrets of the leprechauns that will ultimately lead you to experience true prosperity in all areas of your life.


Lena Salonikas wears many hats that allow her to help people transform, including Success Coach, Reiki Master Teacher, certified hypnotist, and seminar leader. She is the co-founder of both The EnergyXChange and Living in Attraction.

 

 

I have often thought that I might be an unlikely Tarot reader.  I knew next to nothing about Tarot when I bought my first deck.  My saved allowance only allowed for the cards and no potentially helpful handbooks.  I had no Tarot reading godmother to pass down arcane lore.  Due to my mostly nonreligious upbringing, I had no inherent leanings or aversions to divination, or fortune-telling as I might have thought of it then. 

I was a sneering teenager, and assumed that there was some trick involved that I'd be smart enough to pick up quickly.  My new Tarot deck would simply be a fun toy for me and my friends to play with during study hall.  We did have a blast asking about boys we liked and thumbing through the tiny instruction booklet in search of terse answers, but alone in my room I struggled with questions like why I didn't get the lead in the play, and where I should go to college. 

The provocative and beautiful images on the cards implied that I was missing some deeper meanings, but I was also acutely aware that picking cards from a shuffled pack is as random as a Magic 8 Ball and therefore patently ridiculous.  Later I was as surprised as many Americans to find that my Tarot deck was built for gaming in boring old Renaissance Italy and only had a short couple of centuries in which to build a reputation as a spiritual tool, not the eons that some writers claimed.  And what a name it made for itself!  Until modern times Tarot history has been rife with speculation, faulty logic, and downright lies.  In fact, it's been mostly fiction.  As a result of this misinformation Tarot has become something to be feared and ridiculed.  

So why did I stick with it?  If I was a skeptic and Tarot's mystical roots could not be verified, what made me come back to the cards again and again?  Learning that Tarot cards had not come from ancient Egypt or Atlantis, but were mass produced and manhandled by all social classes was actually a relief.  Stripping Tarot of the elitism and extraneous or erroneous associations left simple patterns and universal themes that I could easily grasp and explain to others in a reading.  Realizing that clairvoyance was not required opened up new and more useful ways to read the cards and alleviated my concerns about the seeming randomness of it all. 

The core structure of a Tarot deck is adaptable, accessible, and not tied to any one religion.  It is a template on which a reader can overlay virtually any world view, and one can find a Tarot deck to match almost any philosophy, from Voodoo to baseball.   

I have explored other divination techniques over the years, but Tarot has something that these other methods lack.  A rune or hexagram can represent an image or idea, but having an actual piece of art to focus on will provoke something different.  It is always interesting to hear new interpretations of scenery and situations, and to see which parts of a picture stand out to different people.  The eight of coins may represent a fulfilled apprentice to one person or a bored drone to another, but amazingly they can both be correct depending on the circumstances. 

Like some psychological tests, the associations are free; the hard part lies in assigning the right meaning.  The modern Tarot has outgrown its fortune-telling reputation and found new uses including meditation, self exploration, and creative problem solving.  

Most importantly, I still read Tarot for the same reason I picked up my first deck.  It's fun!  Tarot readings are often depicted as dour, cheerless affairs, so we might forget what the cards were invented for.  I still like to ask the occasional silly question, and the Tarot can be an entertaining story teller with its colorful and emotive characters.  And the cards can often be funny, provoking puns and double entendres, so it's really okay to laugh (or groan) at them.  Tarot is a game after all, so however I use the cards, I try to remember why I picked up that first deck.


April Wagner has been reading and studying Tarot cards since 1995 and has written many articles and Tarot deck reviews for print and the web. In 2005 April founded the Chicago Tarot club to provide a social network for professionals and hobbyists in the area. She is available for readings in LFAC's Healing Room and will be giving a short talk about Tarot at LFAC on March 22, 2010.

 
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